A girl's prayer for a prosperous marriage. A girl's prayer for marriage

Every girl dreams of starting a family and having children. A short relationship or the absence of a permanent partner does not bring positive emotions. To find your man, you need to start with yourself.

Self-love attracts favorable attitudes from others. But love should be tender: a cheerful look, a light gait, a friendly attitude. A proud look, arrogant communication and narcissism, like Narcissus, are more likely to push a man away.

The search for a soul mate, which continues for years, brings girls to church. It is the Lord who sees the right person; it is not without reason that they say that “marriages are made in heaven.”

Who and how to pray

Prayers for getting married addressed to the Lord and his saints. When choosing one of them, you need to study the inhabitants of the Saint, acquire his image and visit the church. The successful outcome of prayer requests depends on the girl herself: goodwill, openness. A prayer for marriage to the Almighty is said by those who desire a sincere, honest and trusting relationship in marriage.

Strong prayers to the Most Holy Theotokos for marriage or imminent marriage are read by mothers. She feels women's desires and helps. To use prayer, you must sincerely believe. Church is visited for making communion and confession. Believers do this all the time, but there is a category that does not consider visiting churches and communicating with clergy obligatory.

When reading the prayer you should:

• Do not pursue selfish goals;
• Be in peace and quiet;
• Clear your thoughts from worldly affairs and worries;
• Say the text out loud or silently;
• Choose any free time;
• Use candles from the church shop.

You can ask God for marriage, your daughter’s wedding, or your son’s successful marriage in your own words. Saints are also addressed in a simple way, because every prayer will be answered. For honest relationships, equal marriage, there is a girl’s prayer for marriage. Girls who want to get married successfully turn to her.

Prayers to the Holy Saints of God

Each Saint has his own power and helps when contacted. Everyone's life is unique and carries deep meaning. It is imperative to get to know him and visit the church with the icon before prayer. The text memorized by heart will be heard, and the desired will turn into reality.

The Saints are worshiped with prayers:

• Peter and Fevronia of Murom;
• Matrona of Moscow;
• Blessed Xenia of St. Petersburg;
• Seraphim of Sarov;
• Great Martyr Paraskeva Friday.

Peter and Fevronia of Murom

These saints symbolize the example of love in the Russian Orthodox Church. In honor of them, July 8th is celebrated as the Day of Family, Love and Fidelity.

Peter had a brother - Prince Pavel. One day a snake began to fly to his wife. No one could destroy him, and he revealed the secret that he would die only from the sword of Peter.

Peter could not leave his brother in trouble and waited for the next visit of the serpent. After a difficult fight, the fire-breather fell, but managed cast fire on Peter. All the skin was covered with ulcers. No one could cure them, so the young man turned to God and prayed with all his might.

The Lord, heeding the suffering of the patient, ordered to seek healing in the Ryazan region. Peter could no longer walk, but promised a reward to the one who would bring him back to life. The servants went around the houses in the surrounding area until they found the maiden Fevronia collecting herbs.

Fevronia was known in the area as a healer with the gift of foresight. She did not need wealth, and she wished to become the wife of the young prince. Wanting healing, he agreed, but deceived his soul. She felt his dishonesty, but prepared a bath and ordered all the ulcers, except one, to be treated with the prepared decoction.

After the bath, the prince came out on his own feet, as if born again. He thanked Fevronia and left without keeping his promise. After a while, from one untreated ulcer, the whole body was again covered with them. Peter returned and took Fevronia as his wife, and she cured him of his illness forever.

After the death of his brother, Peter became the sole ruler of Murom. The boyars' wives despised the princess of peasant blood. One day they staged a riot and kicked out Fevronia, her husband left with her. By water they sailed to the island. Peter was frightened by the unknown, and Fevronia, in order to inspire her husband, spoke to the rods on which the pot of food hung. In the morning they turned into trees, and servants came to the lovers to ask for their return. The boyars shed blood and could not share power.

The lovers had no children, at the end of their lives they took monastic vows and devoted themselves to serving the Lord. They asked him to die on the same day, and asked to bury themselves in a single special coffin. They tried to separate them twice after death, but they were reunited again.

St. Matrona Moscow

During her lifetime, Matrona helped everyone who came to her with problems and illnesses. Foreseeing her death in three days, she continued to work miracles and asked to come to her even after her death. The blessed one is especially revered by women who want to conceive and give birth to a child.

The girl was born into a poor family where they were already raising three children. The parents understood that it would be difficult to raise another one to his feet. One night, a snow-white bird without eyes came to her mother in a dream. The pregnant woman considered the dream prophetic and decided not to give the girl to the shelter.

Matrona was born without eyes. As a girl, she acquired the gift of foresight, but she never considered herself special. Prayers gave her strength. With their help, she treated people and helped in difficult situations.

Ksenia Peterburgskaya (Petersburgskaya)

Blessed Ksenia in the Russian Orthodox Church is an example of fidelity and devotion. She was married and lived in abundance. Her husband died very early, and she had a hard time being separated from her beloved.

Society considered the girl mentally ill. She left all her property to the poor and needy and, wearing her husband’s clothes, calling herself by his name - Alexey, she walked around St. Petersburg. During the day, she often visited friends and helped the homeless with advice and prayer. God rewarded her with the gift of healing.

Word of her abilities quickly spread throughout the city. People tried to see her to ask for help. Ksenia received everyone.

For skeptics, she was crazy, and they were sure that Ksenia spent her nights at the station or in shelters. Once they followed her, they were amazed. In winter, Ksenia knelt down in a field at night and began to pray. So she stood there all night long, and in the morning she again went to help those in need.

Her physical assistance in the construction of a church at the Smolensk cemetery is also known. At night she secretly stacked bricks for the masons and lifted them upstairs. She was buried in this cemetery after almost 20 years of wandering.

Seraphim of Sarov

Kursk boy Prokhor was born into a wealthy family. My father worked a lot. The parents were believers and raised their children in the faith.

The father died early, and the mother raised the children alone. During his lifetime, Prokhor's father began construction of a temple. The widow continued his work. One day she climbed the bell tower with little Prokhor, he hung over the railing and fell. Frightened witnesses were surprised that there was not a scratch on his body.

After some time, the boy became seriously ill. There was no hope for recovery; he constantly prayed. The Mother of God appeared to him and promised to heal him; the boy told about the vision of his mother.

On one of the days of the religious procession to the icon of the Most Holy Theotokos, it began to rain. The clergy whiled away their way and passed by Prokhor's house. The mother took her son to the icon, and he soon began to recover and began to pray and read more.

At the age of 17, he went to the Kiev Pechersk Lavra, blessed by his mother with a copper cross. There he began his service to God, acquiring new knowledge.

Prokhor was drawn to seclusion. He asked for blessings to live on the island. There he built a wooden cell and came to the temple only on weekends and holidays.

One day he was attacked to rob him. Prokhor was severely beaten, and he asked God for forgiveness of his offenders. Later they were found and wanted to condemn them, but Prokhor insisted not to do this. A little later, they came to him for advice and help when their houses burned down.

After 5 years of living on the island, he returned to the temple, but continued his seclusion. People often came to him for advice, but he accepted a ritual of silence and did not help anyone for 3 years, until the Mother of God appeared to him with a call to help people.

The appearance of the Mother of God with a warning about the end of the worldly mission took place 2 years before her death. Prokhor took monastic vows with the name Seraphim. In the Orthodox Church he is revered as a model of patience, obedience, piety and devotion.

Great Martyr Paraskeva Friday

In Asia Minor, a daughter was born to parents who were well-off in life. They, honoring Jesus Christ and his day Friday, named the girl Paraskeva (Friday, Greek). She grew up in love and care, but was orphaned early.

Having reached adulthood, she decided to devote her life to serving the Lord. The stately and beautiful young lady did not recognize the suitors, considering him worthy of the Almighty. She preached Christianity everywhere, without fear of pagan punishment.

In 300, a new military leader began persecuting Christians. Paraskeva did not renounce her faith and was ready to be tortured. Caught by the priests, she was hanged on a tree, but continued to preach. They tortured her, tearing her body with nails and iron claws. The girl endured the ordeal with dignity, without uttering a word.

The priests were sure that she would not survive, and they threw her exhausted, bloodied and torn to the bones body into prison. At night the Lord appeared to her and healed all her wounds for her selflessness.

The military commander came to visit the captive in the morning and saw her body, clean from beatings. He was amazed, but believed that the idols helped Paraskeva heal. She asked to see her healers and went with the priests to the pagan temple. Having crossed the threshold of the temple, Paraskeva began to pray. The idols fell and crumbled from her prayers. Having learned about this, the commander ordered the girl to be hanged on the tree again.

Paraskeva was tortured with torches and candles, burning the body, but an Angel descended from heaven, fanned the flames, and the guards died. The military commander had no choice but to behead the Christian woman. When the soul left the body, the laity heard a voice: “Rejoice! Paraskeva is getting married!

• home;
• family ties;
• honest relationships.

In prayers to her, women ask for a speedy marriage and the settlement of marital relations.

Every woman dreams of finding love and finding a family. Prayers addressed to the Blessed Virgin Mary will help bring this moment closer.

Since the times of ancient Rus', people believed in the power of prayers and asked saints to get what they wanted. If married couples mainly prayed for the health of their children and well-being, then young people wanted to find a family faster. The Orthodox Church has always supported such a desire, because it was believed that a peaceful life can only be achieved by being a family man.

Believers often turned to the Virgin Mary with requests because they believed that she was closest to God and was able to quickly inform Him about their requests. Also, the Mother of God herself was considered one of the patroness of families, so people turned to her with requests for family well-being. Couples who could not have children asked the Mother of God to quickly give them a child, and those who were not lucky enough to find their own family asked for marriage. Many years have passed, but believers still turn to the Most Holy Theotokos for help with requests for a speedy marriage.

Prayers to the Mother of God for marriage

For many girls, the desire to get married as soon as possible is one of the most important. Thoughts about a beautiful wedding, a caring husband and a happy family life often flash in the minds of young ladies, but the main problem remains - the absence of a groom. Her solution can be an effective prayer to the Mother of God for marriage:

“Most Holy Mother of God, hope and protection of believers, patroness of Orthodox families! Help me, Mother of God, to find my love, to find a strong family for life. So that my husband would love only me to death, just as he would idolize me as his beloved wife. Hear me, Most Holy Virgin Mary, help me with my request. Amen!".

It is advisable to read the prayer early in the morning, without getting out of bed. If you want your prayer to be heard sooner, turn to the Most Holy Theotokos in front of the “Unfading Color” icon.

Prayer to the Mother of God for love and marriage

If you have not yet found your love, but already want to be not just a lover, but also a bride, this prayer will help you meet a man who wants to spend his whole life next to you:

“Mother of God, patroness of families. Help me, God’s servant (name), find my happiness, meet my love. Help me, God’s servant (name), find my family and become married. Amen".

If you say this prayer every evening, it will soon help you meet your future husband.

If the beloved does not take his wife

It happens that a woman falls in love with a man and notices mutual feelings on his part. However, for some reason, he does not take her as his wife or completely avoids the topic of marriage. In this case, the following prayer will help:

“Most Holy Mother of God, patroness of families! Hear me and help me in my grief. Let the servant of God (name) quickly take me as his wife. May his love for me, God’s servant (name), never pass away. Virgin Mary, hear my prayers, dispel the doubts of the servant of God (name), my beloved, help me become my only and beloved wife. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".

You can say a prayer at any time. While reading the prayer, try to think about your beloved.

If you have already found your love, then prayers for family happiness will help you maintain feelings and warm relationships in your family. take care of yourself and don't forget to press the buttons and

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Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary for marriage

A godly family life is considered among Christians to be the easiest way to achieve salvation. By supporting each other in difficulties, spouses fulfill God's commandment about love. When a Christian woman chooses a reliable husband, support and protection in the life of herself and her future children, any step she takes is preceded by a prayer to the Mother of God for marriage.

But for the spiritual consolation of single girls and women, the Church allows you to pray for a successful marriage at home, in your own words, as well as order prayers and special petitions “for health” in the church, with the innermost thought of finding a good spouse.

Folk traditions that existed in pagan Rus' partially passed into the Church and were sanctified, acquiring a new, Christian meaning. The Feast of the Intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary was approved for the pagan holiday of “meeting autumn with winter.”

Before which icons of the Mother of God do they pray for a happy marriage?

Since ancient times, there has been a custom in Christian families to bless the newlyweds before the wedding. Most often, newlyweds were presented with the image of the Mother of God - the Guardian of the family.

The icon was placed on a lectern during the wedding, and then installed at home in the “red corner”.

Such images were usually inherited by children and grandchildren on the wedding day, so traditionally daughters who had reached marriageable age prayed before the family images of the Mother of God for the gift of a pious spouse.

Some of the icons were most revered thanks to the miraculous help of the Most Pure Virgin, which occurred after prayers before them.

These include:

• Feodorovskaya Icon of the Mother of God. She first appeared in the family of Alexander Nevsky as a blessing from her father. After the Time of Troubles, the image was passed on to the Romanovs and was passed on to the heirs to the throne on their wedding day. Both the Tsar's daughters and ordinary girls prayed before him for the gift of the same happy marriage that distinguished the Romanov families.
• Kozelshchanskaya. This image of the Virgin Mary was brought to Russia from Italy by the maid of honor of Empress Elizabeth Petrovna. Despite the “Western”, Catholic style of writing, the Kozelshchanskaya icon became famous for many miracles. The image patronized the estate of the maid of honor, which she received as a dowry from the empress. The families who lived under the roof of the house where the icon was located were distinguished by peace and love. Seeing this as a blessing from the Mother of God, mothers instructed their daughters to take care of the chasuble (cover) of the icon, while reading a prayer for a happy marriage.
• Semistrelnaya. The icon depicts seven arrows piercing the heart of the Mother of God. They symbolize Her sorrow in connection with the death of her Son, Christ. They are also seen as an image of the seven human sins. The icon also has another name - “Softening Evil Hearts.” The girls prayed before her for the gift of a loving spouse and the Mother of God’s help in overcoming the sorrows that inevitably accompany love and family life.
• "Three Joys" or "Holy Family" is an icon depicting the Mother of God with Joseph the Betrothed. In some images, Joseph teaches the Boy - Christ - carpentry, and the Most Pure Virgin looks at her Son with tenderness. This rare image encouraged single women to pray before him for the same harmonious family.

Church liturgical canons do not contain a special prayer for finding a husband. According to the commandment of Christ, one must first “seek the Kingdom of God,” and “the rest will be added.”

Completely rejecting fortune telling, conspiracies and love spells, the Church abandoned the tradition of praying to the Mother of God on the holidays of the Intercession and Christmas for a family structure based on Christian love.

What prayer for marriage pleases the Mother of God

Sacred history says that the Most Pure Virgin Herself did not intend to marry, wanting to devote Herself to God. But in ancient times this was impossible; a single woman was surrounded by many dangers. Therefore, She had to enter into a formal union with Elder Joseph, who until the end of his days looked after the Mother of God as a daughter.

With this event, the Church reminds that in the life of an ordinary woman, the choice of a spouse should occur according to the will of God, and not according to one’s own lust. This is the main condition for a happy marriage.

The text of the prayer for marriage, presented below, was compiled by an Orthodox priest to be read at home or mentally, in front of an icon in the temple.

Before the petition, it is advisable to submit notes “about health” for the Liturgy, with the names of your parents, confess and receive communion. Careful preparation indicates the seriousness of the decision and will definitely be accepted by the Mother of God, Patroness of women's happiness.

Most Pure Lady Theotokos! Your Son Himself entrusted You with the care of His disciples. According to the true faith of the Church, You are the Mother of all who love the Lord. Pray to Your Son to grant me, an obedient to His will, the joy of an honest marriage. Help me, my husband and our children to be faithful to the Lord and live according to His commandments. You know what the joy of motherhood is, what it means to teach a baby the first words, to raise a child, to release a grown child into an adult, independent life. I beg you, Most Blessed One, grant me the joy of marriage and motherhood. I will do my best to be worthy of this gift! Amen.

In order not to take an unsuccessful step, in prayers to the Mother of God for marriage one should not mention the specific name of the desired spouse. It is also forbidden to ask the Most Holy Love of a married man, which would be an abomination before Heaven.

Prayer for Marriage

The most powerful icon for those who want to get married is the icon of the Mother of God “Unfading Color”. This icon symbolizes the flowers of love that should never fade in your soul. Young girls can use the prayer for marriage so that the Mother of God will help them in choosing the right life partner. This prayer can be read by women who were already married, but divorced or widowed, and ask God for a new husband. In addition, this prayer eliminates love addiction - a sinful relationship with a married man.

When does the “Unfading Color” prayer help?

Most quickly, the Mother of God will fulfill a mother’s prayer for her daughter’s marriage, because there is nothing stronger than a mother’s prayer for her children.

As we have already said, this powerful prayer for marriage can free you from addiction to sinful relationships and find righteous, pure love. If you are a mistress, read the prayer to the Mother of God and leave the married man. Lead a righteous life, do not lie, give alms, do not use foul language and help the weak. Our sins are a strong wall separating us from God, and the Mother of God is the mediator between the Lord God and us. By turning to the Mother of God, you automatically read a prayer to the Lord about marriage. If you stop sinning and ask the Mother of God for intercession, God will certainly be merciful to you.

And one more thing: You cannot pray to the Mother of God to attract strangers, married men into your life. Such a request will not be fulfilled, and you will only harm yourself.

“Oh, Most Holy and Immaculate Mother of the Virgin, hope of Christians and refuge for sinners!

Protect all those who come running to You in misfortune, hear our groans, incline Your ear to our prayer, O Lady and Mother of our God, do not despise those who require Your help and do not reject us sinners, enlighten us and teach us: do not depart from us, Your servants, for our murmuring.

Lead us sinners to a quiet and serene life; let us pay for our sins.

O Mother Mary, our all-offering and speedy Intercessor, cover us with Your intercession.

Protect from enemies visible and invisible, soften the hearts of evil people who rebel against us.

O Mother of our Lord Creator!

You are the root of virginity and the unfading flower of purity and chastity, send help to us who are weak and overwhelmed by carnal passions and wandering hearts.

Enlighten our spiritual eyes, so that we may see the ways of God’s truth.

By the grace of Your Son, strengthen our weak will in fulfilling the commandments, so that we will be delivered from all troubles and misfortunes and may be justified by Your wonderful intercession at the terrible judgment of Your Son.

To him we give glory, honor and worship, now and ever, and forever and ever. Amen".

Marriage if you are over thirty...

It happens that women search for their ideal for a very long time, are too picky about representatives of the opposite sex, and, as a result, are left alone. But if you are over 30, 40, 50, God will still help you meet your soul mate, just ask him about it. A prayer for a happy, albeit late, marriage should be read to Saint Seraphim of Sarov, the patron saint of late marriages.

The prayer is read for water (1 liter), which you will need to drink internally and sprinkle your bed and bedroom with it.

“O wonderful Father Seraphim, great miracle worker of Sarov, quick and obedient helper to all who come running to you! During the days of your earthly life, no one left you weary and inconsolable, but everyone was blessed by the vision of your face and the benevolent voice of your words. Moreover, the gift of healing, the gift of insight, the gift of healing for weak souls has appeared abundantly in you. When God called you from earthly labors to heavenly rest, your love is not simple from us, and it is impossible to count your miracles, multiplying like the stars of heaven: for all over the end of our earth you appeared to the people of God and granted them healing. In the same way, we cry out to you: O most quiet and meek servant of God, daring man of prayer to Him, rejecting none of those who call upon you, offer up your powerful prayer for us to the Lord of Hosts, may He grant us all that is useful in this life and all that is useful for spiritual salvation, may He protect He will teach us from the falls of sin and true repentance, so that we can enter without stumbling into the eternal Heavenly Kingdom, where you now shine in unfathomable glory, and there sing with all the saints the Life-Giving Trinity until the end of the age. Amen".

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Prayer to the Most Holy Theotokos “On Marriage” (2 options)

Every girl from early childhood dreams of becoming a bride, of a beautiful white dress, veil, magnificent celebration and, of course, a prince. Prayer to the Mother of God “On Marriage” is what you need! It often happens that the years pass, but the desired prince never appears, or the chosen one is in no hurry to propose marriage. Do not rush to despair, because you can always turn to God with a request for help, ask for a kind, decent husband - a Christian.

Prayer to the Most Holy Theotokos “For a quick and successful marriage”

Girl's prayers for marriage

Family happiness is a priceless gift from God that must be earned. Read this prayer daily, sincerely ask God for family happiness, believe and hope in the power of prayer, support your request with good deeds and thoughts, and your prayer will be heard. But in no case should you ask for happiness for yourself at the expense of the happiness of others - this is a great sin. Every person has a soul mate, and when the time comes, the two halves will definitely meet.

This prayer is not only a prayer for marriage, it is also a request for the gift of great, pure love, for the gift of wisdom and patience towards each other. Do not forget that this is not a magical ritual, this is a request to our Lord.

Prayer text

Oh, All-merciful Lord, I know that my great happiness depends on

So that I love you with all my soul and with all my heart,

And so that she fulfills Your holy will in everything.

Rule Yourself, O my God, over my soul and fill my heart:

I want to please You Alone, for You are the Creator and my God.

Save me from pride and pride: reason, modesty and

Let chastity adorn me.

Idleness is disgusting to You and gives rise to vices, give me the desire to

Diligence and bless my work.

Since Your Law commands people to live in honest marriage, then let us bring

Holy Father, to this title, sanctified by You, not to please my lust,

But to fulfill Your purpose,

For You Yourself said: It is not good for a man to be alone, and having created for him a wife to help him,

He blessed them to grow, multiply and populate the earth.

Hear my humble prayer from the depths of a girl’s heart

sent to you; give me an honest and pious husband,

So that we, in love with him and in harmony, glorify You, the merciful God:

Father and Son and Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Prayers to the icon of the Mother of God “Unfading Color”

Prayer to the Mother of God “For Marriage”

An icon for those who dream of getting married is the icon of the Mother of God “Unfading Color”. This icon reveals a flower of love that never fades in the soul. Young girls can read the prayer so that the Mother of God will help them find a reliable life partner, widows and divorced women can also read this prayer, among other things, this prayer can help get rid of a sinful relationship with a married man.

Prayer to the Mother of God “For Marriage”: this prayer will be heard faster if it is read by a mother who wishes her daughter a happy marriage, because it is known that a mother’s prayer is the most powerful.

If you decide to turn to the Mother of God with such a prayer, read it daily at dawn. Support your prayer with righteous deeds - do not lie, do not deceive, give alms, help those in need. The Mother of God is the intercessor of people before God; when you turn to her, you turn to God. If you do not sin and ask the Mother of God for help, God will definitely be merciful to you.

A very important point, do not under any circumstances ask the Mother of God for happiness with a married man, such a request will not be fulfilled and is a great sin.

Text of a strong prayer to the Mother of God “On Marriage”

“O Most Holy and Immaculate Mother of the Virgin, hope of Christians and refuge for sinners!

Protect everyone who comes running to You in misfortune, hear our groans,

Incline Your ear to our prayer, O Lady and Mother of our God,

Do not despise those who require Your help and do not reject us sinners,

Give understanding and teach us: do not depart from us, Your servants, for our murmuring.

Be our Mother and Patroness, we entrust ourselves to Your merciful protection.

Lead us sinners to a quiet and serene life;

Let us pay for our sins. O Mother Mary, our most blessed and speedy Intercessor,

Cover us with Your intercession. Protect from enemies visible and invisible,

Soften the hearts of evil people who rebel against us. O Mother of our Lord Creator!

You are the root of virginity and the unfading color of purity and chastity,

Send to help us who are weak and overwhelmed by carnal passions and wandering hearts.

Enlighten our spiritual eyes, so that we may see the paths of God’s truth.

By the grace of Your Son, strengthen our weak will to fulfill the commandments,

May we be delivered from all troubles and misfortunes and may we be justified

By Your wonderful intercession at the terrible judgment of Your Son.

To him we give glory, honor and worship, now and ever, and forever and ever. Amen."

When to read a prayer for marriage

Don't be ashamed of your desire to get married. The Church fully supports such desires, because a family is also a kind of church. Therefore, do not hesitate to ask God for help. You can pray in church and at home, the main thing is that no one and nothing distracts you.

First of all, you need to pray for yourself, for your chosen one or to meet him, to ask for God’s blessing for a strong and happy marriage. After sincere prayers, you will feel peace and lightness in your soul, because prayer is communication with God.

If it seems to you that your request to meet your chosen one, for marriage is not fulfilled for a long time, or the desired man does not pay attention to you, do not rush to turn to magicians and witches, you will not bring anything good into your life, but will only do harm. Do not forget that we only ask God, and if our desires coincide with his Divine plan, then they will be fulfilled, but if not, then it is better for you, we do not see and do not know what the Lord God knows. Wait and believe, God will definitely hear you and give everyone what they deserve!

When your desire to get married or meet your soulmate is fulfilled, do not forget to thank the Mother of God, the Lord God, do not stop doing good deeds, giving alms, because we receive into our lives what we give to others.

Peter and Fevronia

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Getting married is what every girl probably dreams of. To do this successfully, so that the one and only one invites you to marry, and so that you don’t have to do it a second time, you need to pray and ask God for a blessing for the work of finding a worthy life partner.

Just praying for a good groom will not help the matter - you must be firmly ready to lay down your life on the altar of serving another person, keep the commandments of God, and love your chosen one more than yourself.

It is important to make the right choice - and sincere and fervent prayer to the Lord also helps not to make a mistake.

Who to pray to get married is up to you to decide. Any saint will hear a sincere request for the gift of love and family happiness, so choose the one who is closest to you.

Rules of Prayer

You can pray for any good undertaking - there is, in fact, no big difference in which saint you turn to. Regarding love, they usually pray to Saints Peter and Fevronia, the Prince and Princess of Murom, who during their lifetime became the standard of Christian love and fidelity. But this is not a rule, you should not pray to the saints as if they had a “specialization”, Ksenia of Petersburg, who accepted the feat of voluntary madness after the death of her husband, also helps to get married - it is hardly possible to call her happy in the usual sense.

There is a widespread misconception about the concept of “powerful prayer.” Prayer is just words; it cannot be strong or weak. Prayer is living communication with the Lord, and its power lies not in the words spoken with the mouth, the power of prayer lies in our attitude towards it, in the words spoken by the heart.

If you read on the Internet about the color, size, quantity and quality of candles that should burn during prayer, and the result depends on fulfilling the requirements - you will get married within ten lunar days - be careful and think about the acceptability of such a method.

Under no circumstances succumb to provocations, do not make witchcraft and sorcery out of prayer, remember that this is a great sin!

The effectiveness of prayer is not expressed in immediate action. The Lord will hear the request of the heart and send the opportunity to meet with the betrothed. And taking advantage of this chance is entirely your task.

How to pray for marriage?

Who should you pray to to get married? You need to pray, first of all, for yourself and your chosen one, ask God to enlighten you, teach you love, and help you create a strong union under the shadow of His great mercy. There are special prayers for the increase of love; they can be found in the prayer book. It is useful to offer an ardent and sincere prayer in front of the icon “Softening Evil Hearts” if your relationship with your loved one is experiencing a crisis and your planned marriage is under threat.

Prayer for the icon “Softening Evil Hearts”

“Much-sorrowful Mother of God, who surpassed all the daughters of the earth in Her purity and in the multitude of sufferings You brought to the earth! Accept our sorrowful sighs and keep us under the shelter of Your mercy, for you know no other refuge and warm intercession, but Having boldness in the One who was born of You, help and save us with Your prayers, so that we may without stumbling reach the Kingdom of Heaven, where, with all the saints, we will sing praises in the Trinity to the One God, always, now, and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen."

Do not be afraid to ask God for help in any matter, and if you need advice, resort to the priests. Father, as a link with God on earth, will explain to you any incomprehensible situation from the point of view of the Church.

Prayer “For Marriage”

“Oh, All-Good Lord, I know that my great happiness depends on the fact that I love You with all my soul and with all my heart, and that I fulfill Your holy will in everything. Rule Yourself, O my God, over my soul and fill my heart: I want to please You Alone, for You are the Creator and my God. Save me from pride and self-love: let reason, modesty and chastity adorn me. Idleness is disgusting to You and gives rise to vices, give me the desire to work hard and bless my labors. Since Your Law commands people to live in an honest marriage, then lead me, Holy Father, to this title, sanctified by You, not to please my lust, but to fulfill Your destiny, for You Yourself said: it is not good for man to be alone and, having created He gave him a wife to help him, blessed them to grow, multiply and populate the earth. Hear my humble prayer, sent to You from the depths of a girl’s heart; give me an honest and pious spouse, so that in love with him and in harmony we glorify You, the merciful God: the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen."

God's mercy descends on people through the prayers of various saints - St. Catherine has long been considered a helper in matters of marriage.

Prayer to Catherine of Alexandria “On Marriage”

“Oh Saint Catherine, virgin and martyr, true bride of Christ! We pray to you, for you have received the special grace that your Bridegroom, Sweetest Jesus, has preceded you to: as if you had confounded the temptations of the tormentor with your wisdom, you overcame fifty revolutions, and fed them with heavenly teaching to the light You have taught us the true faith, so ask us for this wisdom from God, so that we, having thwarted all the machinations of the hellish tormentor, having despised the temptations of the world and the flesh, may be worthy to appear in Divine glory, and for the expansion of our holy Orthodox faith, we will become vessels worthy, and with you in heavenly tabernacle, let us praise and glorify our Lord and Master Jesus Christ with the Father and the Holy Spirit to all ages of ages. Amen."

You can ask Saint Xenia of St. Petersburg and Matrona of Moscow for help, the most important thing is not to offend them and the Lord with your negligence, coldness, stubbornness, belief in witchcraft or love magic.

Prayer of Ksenia of Petersburg “On Marriage”

“Oh, holy all-blessed mother Ksenia! Having lived under the shelter of the Most High, knowing and strengthened by the Mother of God, having endured hunger and thirst, cold and heat, reproach and persecution, you have received the gift of clairvoyance and miracles from God and are resting under the canopy of the Almighty. Now the Holy Church, as fragrant flower, glorifies you: standing at the place of your burial, before your holy image, as if you were alive and present with us, we pray to you: accept our petitions and bring them to the Throne of the Merciful Heavenly Father, for having boldness towards Him, ask those who come to you eternal salvation, and for our good deeds and undertakings a generous blessing, deliverance from all troubles and sorrows, appear with your holy prayers before our All-Merciful Savior for us, unworthy and sinners, help, holy blessed mother Xenia, illuminate the babies with the light of Holy Baptism and the seal of the gift Imprint the Holy Spirit, educate boys and girls in faith, honesty, fear of God and chastity, and grant them success in learning; Heal the sick and ailing, send down love and harmony to families, honor the monastic feat of a good struggle and protect from reproach, strengthen the shepherds in the strength of spirit, preserve our people and country in peace and tranquility, pray for those deprived of communion of the Holy Mysteries of Christ in the dying hour: you are ours hope and hope, speedy hearing and deliverance, we send thanks to you and with you we glorify the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen."

Prayer to Matrona of Moscow “On Marriage”

“O blessed mother Matrono, hear and accept us now, sinners, praying to you, who have become accustomed throughout your life to receive and listen to all those who suffer and mourn, with faith and hope, those who resort to your intercession and help, quick help and miraculous healing to all giving; may your mercy not become scarce now for us, unworthy, restless in this busy world and nowhere finding consolation and compassion in spiritual sorrows and help in bodily illnesses: heal our illnesses, deliver us from the temptations and torment of the devil, who passionately fights, help us convey your everyday Cross, to bear all the hardships of life and not lose the image of God in it, to preserve the Orthodox faith until the end of our days, to have strong trust and hope in God and unfeigned love for your neighbors; help us, after departing from this life, to achieve the Kingdom of Heaven with all those who please God, glorifying the mercy and goodness of the Heavenly Father, glorified in the Trinity, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, forever and ever. Amen."

Not only Christians have ways of turning to God about marriage - a Muslim woman also prays in her own way for family happiness. There is also a Muslim prayer for marriage, and more than one. You can pray to Allah in Arabic; there are also translations into Russian. Muslim prayer will help in creating a family and will give blessings to the marriage union.

Muslim prayer “For marriage”

“O Allah! Everything is in Your power, but I am not able to do anything. You know everything, but I don’t. You know everything that is hidden from us. And if You think what is best for preserving my religiosity and well-being both in this and in the future worlds, then help me in order for her to become my wife (husband). And if the other is the best for preserving my religiosity and well-being in both worlds, then help me so that the other becomes my wife (husband).”

After prayer

How should a person feel after praying and asking for help? Prayer has no criteria for effectiveness; it is a request for the blessing of married life.

If you sincerely asked the Lord for help, He will not leave you, He will not bypass you with His mercy, He will give you blessings and help all the days of your life together.

Love is a lot of work and at the same time a great reward, and there are no other ways to receive love except daily tireless work with prayer and God's help.

Never think about magical ways to speed up events, and even more so, do not consider prayer to be such a way. You can suppress a person’s will, but the truth will protest in him with such force that you will more than once regret that you decided to practice witchcraft, receiving a zombified creature instead of your beloved.

Video: Prayer to get married

Every girl dreams of finding her soul mate and living a long and happy life with her. However, not many people find family happiness. In the Orthodox faith, there is a special group of prayer requests to which the concept of “prayer for marriage” is applicable. But in order for such a request to be heard, you need to know in front of which icon and how it should be pronounced.

The Power of Prayer for Marriage

In Orthodoxy there are a large number of very diverse images. Each saint must be approached with a specific request. The choice is made based on whose patron saint is.

Also of no small importance here is how exactly a person lived his life. Many people who were later canonized performed miracles (eg healing, protection, etc.). Accordingly, there are saints who are considered the patrons of family happiness and home.

You must submit a request in the following situations:

• when a girl cannot find her chosen one for a long time;
• need help in choosing a soul mate;
• personal life is not developing as we would like;
• there are problems with your partner (disagreements, misunderstandings);
• request for a happy family life;
• lack of well-being, etc.

Saying a prayer allows a girl to calm down, gain peace of mind, correctly assess the merits of her chosen one, choose a path in life, receive spiritual enlightenment, and sort out her feelings.

Often the reasons for failures in her personal life are the result of the negative actions of people surrounding the girl. Envy, hatred, a sinful lifestyle, etc. can lead to this development of events. In this case, not only help is required, but also protection of the person from the harmful actions of the people around him.

One of the most effective prayers is the one said to the Lord God. This is a very powerful request for help in marriage, which always turns out to be effective.

The text is pronounced by the mother of a girl experiencing problems with family happiness. Before reading this petition, to enhance the effect, you must do the following:

• you need to purchase an icon of the Lord (if there is no such image at home). You should also buy some candles;
• It is best to pray alone;
• A candle is lit in front of the icon. Looking at its flame, you can easily tune in to the desired mood;
• the request must be made with all your heart and sincerely.

Since the request is read by the mother before the Lord, it has incredible power. Therefore, when a girl gets married, she must thank God for her help. For this purpose, special prayers of thanks are read. You can also express your gratitude in simple words.

The petition read in front of the image of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker turns out to be effective. This saint will help you meet your soul mate and create family happiness with her. There is a well-known legend according to which Nicholas the Wonderworker threw three bundles of gold to the father of the family, who, due to poverty, wanted to give his daughters for fornication. The saint's help helped the family improve their lives and their daughters get married successfully.

Also, the request for marriage is pronounced in front of the image of the Matrona of Moscow. A prayer read before this saint helps to find a soul mate.

There are other saints who can provide help and support in creating a happy and strong family. But the prayers read in front of these three icons are considered the most effective. The main thing is to read the holy text with deep faith in help.

Video “Prayer for Marriage”

In this video you will learn what prayer words to offer in front of the icon of Blessed Xenia of St. Petersburg in order to find your soulmate and successfully get married.

Who to ask for help in your personal life

Jesus Christ

Oh, All-Good Lord, I know that my great happiness depends on the fact that I love You with all my soul and with all my heart, and that I fulfill Your holy will in everything.

Rule Yourself, O my God, over my soul and fill my heart: I want to please You Alone, for You are the Creator and my God. Save me from pride and self-love: let reason, modesty and chastity adorn me. Idleness is disgusting to You and gives rise to vices, give me the desire to work hard and bless my labors.

Since Your Law commands people to live in an honest marriage, then lead me, Holy Father, to this title, sanctified by You, not to please my lust, but to fulfill Your destiny, for You Yourself said: it is not good for man to be alone and, having created He gave him a wife to help him, blessed them to grow, multiply and populate the earth. Hear my humble prayer, sent to You from the depths of a girl’s heart; give me an honest and pious spouse, so that in love with him and in harmony we glorify You, the merciful God: the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Archangel Gabriel

O holy Archangel Gabriel! We earnestly pray to you, instruct us, servant of God (name), to repentance from evil deeds and to confirmation in our faith, strengthen and protect our souls from seductive temptations and beg our Creator for the remission of our sins. O holy great Gabriel the Archangel! Do not despise us, sinners, who pray to you for help and your intercession, in this world and in the future, but an ever-present helper to us, may we continually glorify the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, the power and your intercession forever and ever. Amen.

Ksenia of Petersburg

Immaculate Xenia, Lady of Petersburg. I pray to you for a bright marriage and a comfortable existence. Not as a punishment, send me a husband so that a puddle of tears does not spill. Let my husband be strong, not drinking, loving and peaceful. I believe in One God, that only the road leads to Him. Asking for blessings, I will give myself entirely to marriage. Thy will be done. Amen.